Leaders Toolbox #24

5 Ways to Make Relational Capital Investments

The Spring can be a time when commitment to small group tends to waiver. So here are some reminders of things that will gain you relational capital with students. It is amazing how a little extra investment goes a long way with students.

1. Take them with you.
Invite kids into your normal stream of life. Think about inviting a student to join you next time you have to shop for groceries, pick out a birthday present, renew your driver’s license….you get the point.

2. Go early and stay late.
Go to your weekly small group meeting a little early or stay a little later to connect with students and families. Tour the house, share a meal, or play some Wii. This is a great time to connect with students and show them you care.

3. Plan a social outing for the group.
Restaurants, movies, bowling, go-karts, shopping, putt-putt, batting cages, driving range, etc. Do something fun as a way to deepen relationships.

4. Ask good questions.
Open the door to deeper discussions and understanding. How can I pray for you right now? What is your biggest challenge when it comes to following Christ? What has been the hardest thing about this school year for you? What’s your favorite thing about life right now?

5. Drop them a note.
Send kids a handwritten message to let them know that you care. Be specific to encourage them about qualities you see in them. Tell them what you are specifically praying for them about. Share an uplifting bible verse.